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SEX - THE TOPIC - POST #31

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Why does it Matter? - Post #51

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  Why does it Matter?      With all the politics and social pressure now regarding Transgender people, it makes my wonder, "Why does it Matter?"  I knew I was transgender in 2018, but the public didn't.  I was diagnosed with gender dysphoria making me transgender in the spring of 2020, but only a few people knew. I relocated to a small community in Indiana in the summer of 2020, but again only a few people knew.  Because they were short handed, I joined the local volunteer fire department in the fall of 2020, but no one knew I was transgender.  I started HRT in January of 2021, but only some knew.  I responded to countless fires and medicals, and the victims never asked or cared, but some fire fighters knew I was transgender and cared.  When I resigned, everyone knew.  Since then, a few have discriminated against me, but why?  Since the last election fewer people have supported me.  So many assume my political positions....
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It Does Not Have to be Hard - Post #30

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