Discovered Peace & Happiness - Blog #10

 Since my public disclosure of me being Transgender because of my gender dysphoria this past November, it has been a major roller coaster ride.  However, I can honestly say that this was probably the most important decision I could have ever made.  Not only did I discover the Real Me, I also discovered that there are people in my life that "really" do love me.  I have always had quite a few people in my life who I thought cared about me; but now I know that quite of few people really do love me.  Yes, there still are a few people who are struggling with their understanding, but it is getting much more easier.  The support has truly been overwhelming in a good way.  I have never been able to look in the mirror and smile like I can now.  For this, I am so grateful for so much.  The support system from friends, family, medical professionals and my community as a whole has been amazing.  Because of all this, I believe I can honestly say, I have finally discovered real Peace & Happiness. I still give all credit to God, but I still need to thank so many.  I love you all.

Big Hugs to you All,

Jade

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