SEX - THE TOPIC - POST #31

 SEX- THE TOPIC

SEX, the topic that all of us transgender people cannot avoid. "Normally", one's sex life is no one else's business, but apparently for transgender people our romantic life is open for everyone to question?  I can understand one's curiosity, but the boldness so many has towards us amazes me.  Believe it or not, a lot of people actually want to know how my wife and I have sex.. OMG.  My response is oftentimes want to ask them the same question.  Do people really take a moment to consider such a question before they ask it?...there's a thought.

SPOILER ALERT:  We don't.  Most  "transgender people" have little if not no sex life.  So, these erotic fantasies of us "trans" is not a reality.  So all these "She/male, Tranny" common beliefs is fictional.  

FACT: Those of us who are on HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) and MTF (Male to Female), the hormones over-rides our sexual performance, which means we cannot do it like so many people think.

SO WHY?: If we cannot have sex, why would we "want" to transition?  Well, imagine having a self purpose more important than that part-time experience in one's life.  Imagine being able to finally look at oneself in the mirror, and it being more important than sex.  Yes, transitioning is this important to us.

This is not saying that we do not have any romance, but our lives is not the perverted life that many people want to believe we live.  Our number one goal is for us to have peace with ourselves more than anything else, including romance.  This is a scenario that most people cannot relate to.  Perhaps, this is why so many people cannot grasp the concept that we just want to live with no strings attached, just live with Life, Liberty and Pursue of Happiness.

This is who we are, the Topic of Sex is Not Ours, so Please do Not make it one....

Jade

P.S. Each of our stories varies, so please Assume Nothing

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